If you fall, stumble down, I'll pick you up off the ground. If you lose faith in you, I'll give you strength to pull through. Tell me you won't give up because you know I'll be there for you."
By far you are the most amazing person I have ever met. You helped me through all the times I thought were impossible to get through, but with your help I made it to where I am now. You honestly are unaware of how amazing you truly are. You possess the heart and soul of an extraordinary person who is an incredible best friend. It pains me, the way you cannot see the astounding person you really are. You're true self drowned in the toxicity of the atrociousness you consume. The feeling of knowing you're emotions right now are awful. The way you think of yourself, the way you act upon this rubbish is frightful. I love you with all my heart, seeing you like this is tearing me apart. You may be broken, but you are unaware that you are not beyond repair.
"Can we pretend that airplanes in the night sky are like shooting stars? I could really use a wish right now. I could use a dream or a genie, or a dream or a wish, to go back to a place much simpler than this. 'Cos after all the partying and smashing and crashing, and all the glitz and the glam and the fashion. And all the pandemonium and all the madness, there comes a time where you fade to the blackness."
Do you love me, like you used to?
Do you love me, because I love you.
I want things back, the way they were.
But who do you love more, me or her?
Yeah, you break me - break me down.
But I couldn't handle if you weren't around.
You also slowly, broke me apart.
But I didn't think, you would rip up my heart.
I go to sleep every night, with you stuck in my head.
And I really do wish you lay beside me,
But I didn't think you would leave me to die.
I truly thought you were my dream girl.
But now i've realised everything was a lie.
By Joshua Brancatisano(L)
1. to put in disorder.
2. to mix up in ones mind.
3. to make puzzled.
So everyone gets the idea of what it means to be confused, but it seems to come more often to teenagers than anyone else in the world. Why? Because we can't be fucked making up our fucking minds. The only reason there is so much drama in our lives, is because everyone judges you on your change of decisions in your life. We're a fucked group of people, aren't we?
I fucking hate being confused -_-
12:12am
"Are you alright? And I want the truth."
"You want the truth?"
"Yes."
"No, I'm not alright. But one day I will be."
"You're fine. Everything will be okay."
*You think that because you don't know you're the reason.
If only thing sorted out themselves, we wouldn't have a million thoughts running through our innocent minds.
3rd of April,2010 3:39pm
You're not the person you once were. You didn't have a care in the world, nothing could upset you and no one could get you down or angry. Then she came waltzing into your life like a pansy. Like a little doll, charming her way into your mind. Then she shat all over your brain and turned you into moosh. You're angry, you care what she thinks. Yeah, the one that has been with your mate. And your other mate. Oh, and that one too. What a lovely soul sucking soul she is. Just a heads up, you're not the same person you used to be, and it's upsetting she changed the boy you were, to what you are now.
I miss you.
2nd of April,2010 3:35pm
Thanks to Vanessah, I've decided to make a list of things that make me, me :)
2. I am stubborn.
3. I met an asshole who made me more aware of who actually surrounds me.
4. I am close with my mother
5. I express what I think or feel in music.
6. I don't actually believe in God and shit all that much.
7. I love to blog.
8. I think big.
9. I love animals.
10. I'm not a rude person, but if you insult me, I won't sit there and take it.
11. I am a night person, definitely not a morning person.
12. I like to make lists.
13. I have the attention span of a toddler.
14. I hate the thought of what other people are thinking yet I don't care.
15. I have fallen in love at a young age.
16. I cry in movies. A lot.
17. I pierced my lip and ear myself, it made me proud.
18. I drum.
19. I LOVE to dance.
20. I LOVE music.
21. I had an over obsession with the Spice Girls until I was 7.
22. I understand everyone's situations.
23. I like being independent.
24. I believe drama makes life interesting.
25. I keep secrets, which is more than a lot of people can say.
26. Torquay and Queensland are my favourite places in the world.
27. I cannot go a week without writing.
28. I love English and am a nerd at spelling.
29. I cry when I see others cry.
30. I am not stick thin and I kind of like it.
29th of March,2010 11:39pm
It's funny how just one song could bring you to tears, just thinking about the way things used to be. A small period of time in your life could influence your emotions so much, and you didn't even realise it at the time. The nights you spend rolling through the reminiscences, listening to the overpowering music that control your sentiments and the images in your imagination of the days you spent together, not perceiving anyone or anything surrounding. Face it; you weren't ready for this, you were unaware how quickly it would all end and cause your entire world and emotional wellbeing to come crashing down.
The adolescents' ability to love is exceedingly underestimated.
2th of March,2010 7:02pm
26th of March,2010 9:48pm
I don't understand how everything could change without me even realising it. Everything that occurs seems so minor at the time, although if you look at the bigger picture, have life long consequences. I look at my life now and see a sad and unhappy girl who has no idea what the hell is going on. One day I will look at the bigger picture and see my future, and smile. Because one day, I will be free. I will be happy.
26th of March,2010 9:34pm
time and just not give a flying shit about what anything anyone says, or what goes on in life. I was supposed to make this year the most joyous of my school years, It was the year I have looked forward to for the last four years at my time at this stupid school. Now I realise, I shouldn't have spent that time wishing for this year to come, because now that it finally has, I wish I was back in Middle School. I wish I was back to that little chubby year five kid who didn't actually take the time to consider what the hell other people thought of me. I just didn't have a care in the world, and everything was just exceedingly easier.
24th of March,2010 10:03pm
20th of March,2010 5:30am
Another random day,2010 Another random time
Some random day,2010 Some random time.
17th of March,2010 8:07pm
13th of March,2010 11:55am
10th of March,2010 5:44pm
Is it too much to ask for complete and utter loudness and for it to never be silent again?
Sometimes I just need to sit in suffering for a bit whilst things sort themselves out. I never wantedfor us to be awkward, but it's reached that stage. In my imagination, the most perfect situation was placed, but thats only in my mind. For now I must settle for reality.
And that never goes according to plan.
9:41m
4th of March,2010 6:59pm
I tell you what you do; Sit in a shower and die.
22nd of February,2010 7:57pm
When my friends aren't friends with my other friends.
When my sister seems to love to speak FOR me.
When someone adopts the dog I want.
When people want to jump your boyfriend for no reason.
When guys act like total dickheaded perves.
When sluts act like snobs.
When my ister blames shit on me.
When people speak too quietly.
When theres nothing to do.
When I have to do any form of maths.
When I get grounded.
When I get my phone taken off me.
When my internet lags.
When theres no food.
When there are no good new songs to be had on itunes.
When people spread false rumours about me.
That my annoyance list would be ten times bigger than my happy list.
21st of February,2010 2:07pm
20th of February,2010 10:58m
18th of February,2010 5:28pm
NoteToSelf; Never try it again.
Fuckyoubitch.
17th of February,2010 5:03pm
I've also realised that you absolutely cannot rely on anyone else to stick up for you. Your best friend, your boyfriend, not even your family. You're stuck on you own, and when worst comes to worst, no ones gunna have your back. By the time you wait for someone to stick up for you, you'd have died of old age. I realised I waste my time waiting for you to stand up for me, I may as well just sit and watch grass grow. I've noticed I must do everything on my own, no matter how much you say you're there for me, when it really matters, no one is there at all.
14th of February,2010 10:44pm
13th of February,2010 11:57pm
12:32am
I am PUMPED!
13th of February,2010 12:26am
8:10pm
4:00pm
I am a stubborn bitch. I should really try getting along with my parents more often. First step; apologise to mummy dearest. Also a note to self; do not put newly pierced ear on show to parents, may skits :/
I miss Liam :(
12:53pm
8th of February,2010 9:37am
I found it absolutely hilarious!
Bonita, said:
aww
:
wow.
and yours is...
not the solider oh noot the solider
-arianalovesliam<3 said:
The Cowgirl
THE SOLDIER?
whats that:
*
Bonita, says:
*ROFLLL
*LIKE OK
* hear we go
*= person
* "humps" *humps
-arianalovesliam<3 says:
*huh?
*LOL
*theres four people?
Bonita, says:
*NOOOOOOOO
-arianalovesliam<3 says:
*all bumraping eachother?
Bonita, says:
*ROFL
*IM UST REPEATING
-arianalovesliam<3 says:
*LOL OHH
Bonita, says:
*OMG ITS JUST THE NORMAL WAY -.-
-arianalovesliam<3 says:
*LMFAOO
6th of February,2010 2:06pm
5th f February,2010 5:35pm
6:45pm
4th of February,2010 6:01pm
3rd of February,2010 8:28pm
Sometime on the 2nd of February,2010
2nd of February,2010 12:01am
11:55pm
'The first kiss stole the breathe from my lips, why did the last one tear us apart?'
1st of Febrary,2010 11:17pm
1st of February,2010 11:11pm
ILY MAYDAYPARADE(L)
How does she feel, how does she kiss?
How does she taste while she's on your lips?
Friday, I'm In Love.
So today was quite extraordinary. My mother and father told me I was not allowed out he last couple of days of the holidays, but everything that they said seemed to have flown out the front door. Two days ago, I saw my baby boy, Mitch, my big brother Jason and the hard cunt Steven with Bonita. I ended up staying out till 9pm. Which, if you knew my parents, would never be allowed? I don’t know what the exception was this time, but I liked it. Yesterday I met up with the biff, Daniel, My “Middle” brother, Taylor, and a third of Gertrude, Bonita at McDonalds. We then walked to the oval and met up with Jase, Steven and Mitch. This would usually be a bit too far for my parents liking, but my mother was more than happy to drop me off and allow me to walk with a whole bunch of boys and a third of Gertrude? I didn’t know what had gotten into my parents, but they seemed to let me have a little more responsibility these holidays than I usually would have been allowed. But hey, I am definitely not complaining. Now I need to take a long awaited poo and foodage so I will continue this in a bit.
Saturday 30th of January,2010 12:31am
Carrying on from where I left off, I like the fact my parents trust me more, I fell oh so adult-ish! So after our little walk though Sydenham, again to my surprise, my house was filled with a lot of boys… That my mother was ecstatic about? She didn’t mind the company, especially finding the sons she never had, Jason and Taylor. T’was a lol and a half. She left for her work and we remained out back for a smoke. I don’t really know what else to write, but almost the perfect afternoon. If only another third of Gertrude, Nessah, and my babe Megan were there, it would have THEN been perfect. Jason and Mitch and Steven had to leave, so we all migrated out to the front and walked along the side. Saying goodbye a kaffaffle came about and lead to around, 378487864327469768 kisses goodbye between me and my boy, a car beep, a country word from an old man, and a signal from another person, a few random ass photos which I did not know people took and me and Mitch having green cheeks. Don’t ask. Us remaining four went back inside and then recorded a random ass twenty minute video, which will be posted soon, hopefully, my cord works. We then went backyardage and took photos, which failed the first time, half because I had it on zoom and the other halfy because it was on video, not on camera. Another video was made, of Daniel getting anus raped by my dog. Again, the video of those to be posted shortly if cord works. After a while we went outside the front so Bonita’s parents could pick her up. After that Taylor, Daniel and I went inside, to lead to a fight between me and Taylor as he had the idea of taking a photo of me in my very much so youngie days. Not good, as I failed. Bu everything must end properly, so the boys left. The day was quite a good day, and maybe not that funny/fun to you reading, but you kind of had to be there to see the effect we have on each others existence. It’s quite horrible.
27th of Janary,2010 9:28pm
9:42am
Ok so Bella wakes me up, at like, eight in the morning, and im so tired from being up till four that I fail to fully wake. I make my mother and father get me an extra strong latte for the last time from the Cafe across the road so I can acutally see. We take yonks to re pack the car, and I say goodbye to the temporary neighbours. I didn't want to leave. I try convincing my parents to contemplate on moving up here. Their response? "We'll think about it". Downer mood already. I fall aseep in the overpacked car, with my comfy pillow under my head, aviators on eyes, and oily messy hair in bun. Good thing I did though, according to mother the car conversation was about Goats and Cows and apparantly "Piss".... Beer or whatever. When we got home, I unpack and go get the dogs. God how I missed their barking! All trip long I istened to some little mutt a door down. So anyways, bottom line is, I love it up there, and hate it down here... My solution? MOVE TO TORQUAY!!! haha... I wish ><
10:27am
This morning I didn’t wake up at my usual time. I seem to wake up earlier near the beach, not just at Torquay, but in Robina, Runaway Bay, Surfer’s Paradise, Phillip Island. I suppose I'm just more of the beach person, I mean the rest of my family gauges my eyes out to try and get me up back at home, yet here, they fail to get out of bed before ten and I'm up at seven. So this morning I meet Trent, also known as “Trennybear” down at the beach to find him doing footy drills. Yes, that is normal behaviour for him. I love how he can find something football related anywhere he goes, me however, I'm still a lost child, I need to find what I love, I thought I found dancing, but I suppose I was wrong. Even though I love it to death, it will just have to leave me. We go for our morning swim, and after that we get up on the sand to find my mother waiting; I guess she loves the beach too, I can’t lie, she was the second one up this morning after all. As we dry off, a retriever pup and his owner come walking towards us, as expected it runs up to play. It’s funny how it can just stop to say hi to everyone and not be bothered about wether or not the person will hurt it. But of course I guess it can sense wether it is liked or not. After saying goodbye and getting my latte I come back home to find the lazy one on the couch, eating junk food at ten in the morning. It sickened me quite a bit to see that’s how we were at home. I have to admit though, I haven’t eaten a full Macca’s meal in a while, and I’m quite thrilled about that. So anyways, this leads me here, sitting out on the front decking saying good morning to ever passer by that comes along, sipping my coffee and writing this. I feel like another coffee, so I think I’ll just leave this at where it is at the moment. Yum Cha ^-^
6:55pm
Ok so after I had my coffee and continued to just sit outside tanning like the white girl I am, my parents decide that they should finally go to the beach, I tell them I’d stay home, just because I was tired. About ten minutes after they left, I realised that this weekend away was way too short to just sit in the beach house all day, so I got redressed and took a walk down at Bells street. I walked up one way, and then down the other before walking across down to where the surf beach is. After walking along that I carry on up to where all the cliffs are and sit there for a while, just watching the surfers down further. I make my way back down to the surf beach before entering Front beach, where I sat and drank another coffee before making my way back to the house. My parents had read the note I left them and surprisingly, they weren’t that worried. I suppose everyone worries less when they’re down here! Around half an hour later, my temporary neighbour walks in with his friend, surf board in tow, into his rented out cottage. On their way back out, they stop to say hi, and invite me to Macca’s. That was the third group of people here to invite me there. I guess that’s the place these teenagers here hang around at. Which is weird, because there was a beach right there? After declining, knowing my parents would get pissy; I carry on checking updates through my dads mobile and then go inside. The family and I go around the corner to that ice cream store to get ice creams and myself a smoothie. To be honest, I cannot possibly be bothered carrying on in detail the events of the rest of the day, so long story short, me and my family went down to the beach, once again, I went for my usual walk around the beaches and the cliffs, I went back down to the beach, washed up and then ended up back out here on the front decking, writing this, drinking my coffee and eating my Doritos. Om Nom Nom! For the evening I think I shall go get another coffee, an ice cream and then watch the ocean for a bit, hopefully bump into the temporary neighbour again for a smoke. Ciao for Now!
It will never be easy, but we work on it. I hate not being with you, or even within 5 km of you. If you were here, I’d be okay. But your not, and I’m not. And I miss you and the smell of your cigarettes and the sound of your laugh. I text you, but I don’t expect a reply from your credit-less number. For another night, I sleep to feel alone.
11:46am
It was my first sleep here at the beach house, first morning waking up in Torquay. It was the first morning waking up to the salty water air. The first morning waking up next to the ocean. I wake up and bring dear darling mother out to get some air with a walk along the beach. As we walk along the shore with the water in my bare toes, I look around and take in the surroundings of this amazing place. When I'm at home, this is the place I want to go to get away from all the stress and problems of my home life. Here I'm not the same Ariana I am in Melbourne. Here I am the Ariana that is carefree, that has nothing to worry about. The Ariana who doesn’t find any problems even in the most complicated of situations, only the solution. Only the bright side of situations. This is my place to get away. This is my place where my happiness fully shows without the fear and succeeding of letting the sadness take over. As me and mother continue our walk along the beach, Trent, his brother Ben and friend Andy are down at the beach. After last night deciding to catch up that exact morning, I failed to check my phone for the contact from him saying they were there. Turns out they were waiting around for ages for me. As I walk up to them to greet them, the couples catch my eye again. This place is all couples. It frustrated me. After having a chat with the boys and introducing them to my mother, we decided to take off to get our lattes. Walking around with my mum, I notice that I should really spend more time with her. With dad always working and Bella and Niki too young to make actual adult conversation with her, she hardly has anyone. Her family live so far away, and her friends are always busy with work… Note to self; book to get nails done when back in Melbourne. As we walk into the café, we can’t help but to notice the friendly people and inviting atmosphere the area has. Everyone is laughing and joking around and carrying on like there is not a problem in the world. It was quite a lovely change to see smiles on everyone, and not downer moods. We grab the lattes and dads coffee and head down back to the beach house. I put on my shorts and head down to the beach after breakfast for a swim. We get there and find our spot on the sand and head for the water. After a short dip, I get out and walk along the water down to the rock pools. On my way there I oddly find an old man with a sort of pole pump thing. I then find out that he is catching prawns. It was a weird contraption, but it was fairly useful for his job. As I keep walking, a little blond boy manages to run into me on his way to the little pool of warm water down near the open ocean. As his bright blue eyes look up at me, he bursts into fits of laughter. It’s funny how a small child at the age of around three could brighten up my morning even more than my coffee could! More couples manage to cross my path and look at me whilst their fingers locked the way ours were not only a couple of days ago. I think the couples of Torquay are out to get me, just so I could miss you more, if that were even possible. After about an hour or so, I make my way back down to where my family’s’ belongings were held.
4:14pm
We then go back to the house to get clean and go shopping for the barbeque tonight, chicken, lamb, sausages and peri-peri sauce! Yes, I had to get something Nando’s even down at Torquay. We ate and then we planned to go around the corner to get ice cream for desert.
8:58pm
As we walked along the beach as a family, Ice cream in hand, I turn to look at the ocean. It seemed that when I got here, all my problems came with me and were thrown into it, just to be drifted out to the sea to sort out for me, or even better; to just simply forget about them all. As the little ones went off to the playground with mum and dad, I sat there, just to think about what it would be like to live up here. Even in the winter, it wouldn’t be that bad, just cold, but I would be able to get used to it, I am from Melbourne after all! I sit there, and just as I had a smile on my face, 7 couples manage to walk past me once again in a row. The world likes to throw it in my face even when I'm happy. I do suppose that I would be really fully pleasant if you were there right by my side. My happiness would truly be fulfilled then. As the hour went by, we went home and the first thing on my mind to do was to call Mitch, my baby boy.
11:29pm
I went outside to make my call, and got up on my usual spot on the fence, just overlooking the ocean and the view of the line of the joint café and restaurant, the ice cream shop and the units before our row of houses. My stomach did a flip as you answered your cell, thankful to hear your voice which I loved again. As our usual fight over who thought who was cuter, a couple sits down at the café. I know a lot of them usually do, but there was something different about this couple. He was tanned, not overly but slightly, had black medium length hair, wore knee length shorts and a singlet. She had brown, almost blond hair, was quite fair and wore denim shorts with a white oversized shirt tied up, bikinis underneath. They sat at the outside table smoking their ciggie with their drinks at the table, they were holding hands and after what I presume was after every sentence, or even at the middle of the unfinished statement, they would lock lips and not have a care of what was happening around them. To everyone else, they wouldn’t seem like such a different couple to everyone else in that café, or even on the street. But to me, it was like an image of the future, they reminded me of us. It was kind of scary, but great to watch how similar they were to me and you. It made me miss you more than ever. After complaining to you about all the couples I see and then going inside to finish my hour and a half long phone conversation with you, I tell you I love you and go sit with the family to watch tennis, like we do every time the Australian Open is on. I text Trent to make our morning plans for a swim and this is where I am now, sitting here on the dining table half watching the game, half writing this up. I plan to watch the rest of the match and then fall asleep, thinking about you in my sleep and looking forward to the later morning, as it is now 12:13am on the 25th of January. My lips haven’t touched your in two whole days. That sucks. Goodnight!
Well the trip was great, until we got into the car; already problems. Nothing could ever be quiet and peaceful in a wog family, but I couldn't get used to it being any other way. During the car trip down here, headphones blaring over ears, behind my aviators I could see a lot. The car window rolled down with the wind screaming at my face I took notice of the little things, like every cow would chew with their mouth going anti clockwise. Bit bizarre, but small things do amuse small minds. When we got there, it already felt like home, I would love to live here in the summer, it would be the best thing, I swear. As I stroll along the beach, I can't help to notice, first off, the amount of couples I see walk past me. I hate the fact that when you miss someone, everything reminds you of them. And then I notice the little children. As I maintain my stroll along the shore, I see a little blonde girl scared of the water. As she runs up to the water line, the wave rolls in, so she runs back towards her mother. As it goes back out, she runs to it but to her surprise it hits her on the legs, she laughs her baby laugh as her mum rolls the video camera. Obviously her first time at the beach. I realize how precious your childhood really is and to hold every moment you have, because in a short amount of time, it will fly by. Children really are amazing with the way they make you realize.
Oh Wow,
23rd of January,2010 1:00am
I am hoping to meet up with dear Maddy while in Torquay and maybe even go up to Ocean Grove for the day to see Lil and Britta. If my parents don’t throw a hernia and say “Oh no, you may get raped while your there!” or something.
A few things I will miss for the short time will be:
Gertrude, I love them dearly.
PK’s awesome one way webcam conversations.
Internet.
Walks with my older brother Jason, since it’ll be warm while I'm gone -___-
But most of all, speaking to Mitch. Twill be hard not to make contact with him for four whole days.
~arianalovesmitch~ says: lol, fuck. this one tastes like shit!
pk says: what one? ohh yum . YUM!
~arianalovesmitch~ says: tastes like my ass
pk says: :
~arianalovesmitch~ says: LOL, hypothetically speaking
pk says: hmm :
~arianalovesmitch~ says: haha! you would know :O:O
pk says: how wouuld i know :O
~arianalovesmitch~ says: idno. i just say things, but don't think them through :/
pk says: yeahh i just went down there one day, and thought i would give it a taste.
~arianalovesmitch~ says: yeahh,
pk says: and god it taste like cola tubs
~arianalovesmitch~ says: i always knew you bumraped me during the night D:!
pk says: ahhah
pk says: how could i taste it iif i bumraped you? idiot :)
~arianalovesmitch~ says: you licked it ><
7:58pm
Even though we only had a couple of hours together, it was nice just to sit there with you. Just feeling your presence among me made me feel warmer than the weather, despite the fact you gave me goosebumps. I don't care what they say or do, I'm in love with you and nothing can change that.
2:19pm
22nd of January,2010 1:46am
All I need to get by is knowing you truly love me and will never leave me. I have that reassurance now.
The Anthropology of Ariana.
I'm not who you think I am because to be honest, you don't know who I am. How should you? I laugh when i'm not meant to, I cry when things get happy. I never know what to wear. I want it to be hot when it's cold, and cold when it's hot. I like being alone, yet when I am, I wish I wasn't. I realised not everything is worth dying for. Nothings what it seems and who you thought were, aren't. All I need is you, that's all I really know.